Presumably, you've already read How Do I Become a Christian?
Read the Bible
If you do not own a Bible, there are resources on the web. One very good resource is at Crosswalk.com --> Bible Study Tools (don't sign up for every email newsletter or devotion). You can do word studies, also. It may be frustrating to consider diving into the Bible, but the New Testament (from Matthew to Jude) is probably the easiest and best place to begin. The four gospels, Matthew, Mark, Luke and John, contain a lot of good information regarding Jesus' ministry and life concepts.
It's very easy to get overwhelmed, but I think just reading the Bible and maybe a renowned commentary is a good start. It's a little arcane, but the commentary by J. Vernon McGee was decent. If you're out of your twenties, you probably have your own developed notions about life, that may color your perception of his notes, but right now, you're not looking for exactly what you think of the Bible, but to get an overview of it. This doesn't overlook that you must ultimately think for yourself. It's a process that will take a while, and you don't want to get totally caught up in hashing out all your ideas and losing site of the goal.
The first goal is to get to know the Bible. After that, you can start to draw conclusions. The reason for this is that the Bible is a large work, sometimes written to specific peoples for specific purposes. As a result, it must be taken together, compared to itself and reasoned out over time.
For this reason, I'd like to ask you to give yourself time to do this, then draw your own conclusions, and only then, branch out into apologetics (for or against), if you're so inclined.
If you're one of those souls who have reached this page but haven't made up your mind about Christianity, the advice is very different. By all means, study and take your journey where ever it will go. I hope that where ever you end up, you will be blessed for your efforts.
An alternative to Crosswalk.com or reading the Bible with some commentary is to attend churches. Yes, I think probably attending a few churches isn't a bad idea. Find the denomination that fits you, that fits where you believe God is leading you.
Each time you attend church, read the passages offered, along with surrounding passages for context. Make sure that there is harmony between all the passages and the message the pastor gives. The more harmony there is suggests that this is a Bible-believing church and probably worth exploring further.
Go to Church
Some people have trouble with organized religion. “Why can’t I stay home, where I can keep my checkbook full, and worship God in my heart, and where there aren’t hypocrites?” I’m sure there are many other well-thought reasons people give, but this is one I’ve heard most commonly.
You most certainly can stay home. But there are hypocrites everywhere. And there are proactive reasons to attend church, not to hear the gossip and watch the mini-dramas unfold, but so you can give and receive.
Just WHAT exactly will I be expected to give?
Well, in Biblically correct churches, nothing but what you feel like God is leading you to give. But I don’t want to focus on that, right now because I really want you to focus on being given to, a lot, at first. What you eventually give may or may not be money, nursery duty or aiding a Sunday School teacher with a pair of fighting third-grade boys. You’ll find your place to serve, be it counseling, playing in the band, coaching the kids’ basketball team, etc. When you’re ready, you will do it out of a heart of worship.
What will I GET by going to church?
Support. It may take time to find a church in which you feel comfortable or seem to fit with what you believe or find true in the Bible. Large churches can be difficult to fit into. But with time and prayer and a tiny bit of openness, you will begin to find your place.
How do I look for a church?
Start with prayer. Then, you might do an overview of the beliefs of churches in your area. Many give some sort of creed or doctrine (basic beliefs). Start there, and maybe research scripture if you can (a concordance, or Bible with a concordance can help). The doctrine should list supporting scripture. You can get a more general idea of the different beliefs by performing a search of the denomination (Baptist, Pentacostal, Presbyterian, Methodist, Catholic, etc.).
What if there is corruption in the church I go to? There are some guidelines in the Bible for dealing with corruption or personal sin. Start with prayer and searching the Bible.
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